You said you have moved overseas.
Where?
And you moved overseas to live with your Husband while his residency papers were processed.
So, is this for that country, or the USA?
The thing is, wherever you are now.... it was so your Husband could get his residency papers. To live there.
So, you all most likely, will be living there... permanently?
And if you are overseas in another country... do you have residency papers, too? To live there? Since you are not a "citizen" there?
It seems, you both have not talked about this... PRIOR... to your moving. To your Husband's country.
So now there are problems.
But your Husband, now has the power of his family behind him... and on his side. And you are the Wife... of which they are all... telling you what to do, and your Husband... too. And they are not treating you as family... but as an outsider.
And, your Husband has/owns a bar and restaurant there. The restaurant business... is hard. And it is... very hard. And... it has LONG LONG hours. I have a friend, who's Husband owns a restaurant and is a Chef. He is hardly home, also. It is a hard... business. And a hard.... life. For the Wife and kids.
Then what I don't get is.... you said his "residency" papers have been approved... and he wants to move... but has made no effort to learn English.
So, it this a "green card".... and you are here in the USA???? And you are not an American... and you came overseas, here? And his family is here????
And, if your Husband wants to move... then to where?
He has a bar/restaurant. He can't just pick up and leave and move.
He has to sell, the business.
And he doesn't know English.
So many problems.
And where is YOUR, family?????