February is Black History Month.
"Do not walk downtown with a 5 year old near the black history expidition or it will be brought up often how mean white people were for another year!"
What is that supposed to mean?
Instead of not wanting to hear her bring it up, I would have a conversation with her to let her know that not ALL white people were mean. Many white people fought for civil rights.
It's my true belief that people fear what they don't understand.
Your daughter is old enough to have open discussions with her.
My kids were raised in a very culturally and religiously diverse family.
We have black people in our family. We have Viet Namese people in our family. We have different religions. From the time my kids were very little, I taught them about ALL of it. They knew about the Holocaust, slavery, segregation, the Civil Rights Movement, they knew about the Viet Nam war and that Aunt Julie and her family risked their lives to escape Viet Nam in a tiny little boat. The memories are still so raw for her that she's never been back on another boat in her life.
My point is, we are all one family. Do we all look the same? Nope.
My sister and I have the same mother and father and we couldn't be more different.
Kids do notice differences. It's pretty normal. They are trying to make sense of things. The beauty about kids, however, is that they can see the beauty in differences and understand that the world would be pretty boring if everyone were the same.
There are LOTS of amazing books for young kids about friendships and differences. Go to the library with your daughter and check out a few of them. Read them together and talk to her about what she gets from the stories.
If your daughter is bringing these things up, it's the perfect time to get her some information. Educate her. Not ALL people are bad. Not ALL people are good. But, we all bleed the same color.
J. my opinion.
Best wishes.