Why Are Some Moms So Rude?

H.,
I know what you're talking about. I've encountered similar situations and have walked away feeling something was wrong with me or my personality. And with me too, these situations sit way too long on my mind and linger. I used to try to change the way I acted, but being older now, I think it's best just to be true to who you are. To give her a little benefit of the doubt, perhaps she didn't hear you? Sometimes when people say something to me, if there's background noise, I know they were speaking to me but I don't know what they've said. Typically I don't ask them to repeat because I'm too embarrassed I missed what they've said. But I will make eye contact and smile to acknowledge them. In your next encounter with these snooty type people, maybe try to visualize their behavior as "bouncing" off you and not penetrating you so this doesn't ruin your day. Unfortunately, we can't change anyone, but we can select our mindset. Have a nice holiday, H.!
C.

I'm with you!! Sometimes they really are, I guess they feel threatened, worried, or just trying to avoid distractions even if they are people. The important thing is to never let it change you or get in your spirit. Just keep being kind when you can, and don't expect too much, and you will make great friends when you least expect it. It's the law of reciprocation...you have to be rejected a few times for every positive event in life...just a wives tale. LOL My only caution is be assertive, not defensive. And remember, when all the crabby moms go home, you still have your own little person to make lasting relationships with.

I know what you are saying some people can be very rude. I am a very social person and dont understand why some people have to act that way or treat other s like they are not worth their time.

You almost made me cry in relief that someone feels the same way I do...I grew up in Milwaukee and spent 1/4 my childhood overseas (I never had a problem making friends, even if I don't speak the language). My husband and I settled down in Muskego (he is from Antigo - tiny town). I tried joining a story time for babies at the library last year. I was hoping to give my child a little interaction and get some adult conversation for myself. I tried everything....but these women just shunned me. It felt like I had been "black-balled" from this little Mom Society. Maybe I didn't have a big enough diamond on my finger or something...or maybe they didn't like my son wearing a "Motorhead" t-shirt (my brother got it for him from somewear in Eurpoe) or his AB/CD t-shirt. I just came to the conclusion that I don't fit in here. But I will still sign my son up for fun stuff, plus I joined one of the service organizations in our community. It's hard to find those kind of people in a group who join together to do something to improve other people's lives. GOOD LUCK!!

Wow that is soo rude! I love people I hate that I don't have a lot of time I love being organized but I tell ya with my kids it seems I am not. That mom was so rude I would never do that I love when people compliment my kids that means I am doing good. Some people just think they are better than others it is a shame I am sorry she ruined your day and don't give up. I am sure God noted the rude behavior. I hope she didn't do that in front of your daughter cause then you might have to say something. JJ