L.C.
Dear N H: Your question made me laugh! They way you asked how to run in all different directions was just hilarious. I'm NOT laughing at you - I'm expecting my 6th soon and I can totally relate! My first two children are exactly 2 years apart and that was very difficult. After a couple of miscarriages I finally had my 3rd baby 4 years after my 2nd baby. Then I had another baby 2 years later, ending up with 4 children in 6 years. THAT was hard, but not as hard as the going from one to two. So, I waited about 3 years and we had another baby, and now 2 years later I'm expecting my 6th and last. I would say that having kids in diapers, car seats, needing naps, shoes tied, etc. is very difficult when you add a newborn. The pay off is that as they get older they're great friends (most of the time!).The key to adding new little precious people to your family is your philosophy on parenting and your personal habits. What I mean is that even if you're an easygoing person, structure, routine and order are critical to adding more children to your family in a sane way. I don't mean you have to be neurotic, but just willing to work hard at a basic routine. Furthermore, believing that even little children can obey your directions the first time, lay on their beds quietly even if they're not tired, and that they can be helpful to you in chores, etc. is also really important to enjoying a larger family. It is very hard work and not always fun - but the payoff is absolutely worth it. I rarely recommend women wait to have more children, especially if they're approaching their late 30's - but sometimes it's a good idea to wait till your two little ones are a little older to have another one. God bless you!