B.K.
L.,
I also am a single mom of two boys, 6 years old and 3 years old. I found when my younger son cried when I dropped him off at daycare it was because he was not getting the care or attention he needed. I tried 3 daycare places, never finding one where he was happy. He now is with a stay-at-home mom who has one child and he LOVES going over there. In fact, he's in preschool also and asks me NOT to pick him up. He wants his sitter picking him up. I KNOW by the way he behaves that this is the place he should be at and I am VERY happy that I kept going to different places until he was happy going there. My 3-year-old has loved this sitter from day one and he has felt welcome there. I know he's getting taught there too. My sitter's husband is Mexican and is teaching my son Spanish...which I appreciate very much. He has learned many new things there, manners being one of the top things (we work on this at home but he seems to do better now). I hope this helps and good luck.