Returning to Work After Being Home for 5 Months

Updated on November 17, 2008
A.C. asks from Lees Summit, MO
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I have been working from home for the past two years and haven't worked at all since the birth of my son in February. I am returning to work full time at an actual office on Monday and am dreading it because my son is just now getting to be so much fun and I will miss him dearly. My son is on a schedule where consistently sleeps from 6:30pm until 7am and then naps for an hour in the morning and three hours in the afternoon. The morning part is fine because I will be up getting ready for work and then take him to day care. The problem and what makes me the most sad is that when I get off work at 5pm, I have 30 minutes to get him and then another 20 minutes home, by this time it's 6pm and I will only have time to feed him and put him to bed. Where is my time with my baby going!!!!! I hate this. Any suggestions from you moms as to how to actually get some additional time with him. The mornings are not an option, but what can I do to spend more time with him in the evening without him being cranky and tired. I want have play time and stuff. Any thoughts or suggestions?

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S.L.

answers from Kansas City on

I believe you will find that in a few weeks his schedule will change drastically. He will miss you as much as you miss him. So he will not want to go to sleep when he just now has you after being away from you all day. He'll start staying up later a little bit each night. His naps will probably be a little longer during the day.

It will all work out :) You may want to play with the schedule between you and the provider. But every time you think you have a good schedule, he'll change it up on you. I always think it's so funny when mothers of children that are less than one year old will talk about their babies sleep patterns like they've been doing this or that for so long. So long? They've barely been a live but a few months. The first year most babies will change their routines a dozen times over and every few weeks.

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M.F.

answers from Kansas City on

ahhh the golden question! i will watching your responses as this just kills me inside! good luck and God Bless "the moms"

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S.D.

answers from Topeka on

I know he is yoning but if you don't want a stimuilating activity with him get him all ready for bed feed bath baby massage for a few minutes then cuddle up and read books it will foster his growth and he will love to hear your voice

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D.S.

answers from Kansas City on

Hi A.! Just checking in on you to see how it's going since returning to work! If you are interested in getting back home with your little guy, let me know as I have a home based business I'd love to share with you! Check out my website at www.wahu2day.com and/or email me at ____@____.com. I'd love to share it with you! :-) Hope all is going great with you and your family!

C.B.

answers from Kansas City on

i agree with some of the other responses. he's only been out in this world a few months, but you'll be surprised how quickly he figures out the new routine. my son started going to bed about 7pm at around 6 months of age or so, also. the daycare provider may have to adjust his naps a bit. have activities in mind (dinner, bath, stories, massage) to keep him occupied once you get home, and i'm sure he'll be able to stay up a little longer for some mommy time. it'll be fine, i promise! and the contact with other children will be vastly beneficial to him. good luck!

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B.H.

answers from Kansas City on

Your son will adapt to a new schedule - just give it a few weeks. You might try giving him a late afternoon nap and then getting him on a schedule for bedtime at 8:00. Around 6 months my son started staying up later. Good luck. I know it is hard being away from them but hopefully you have wonderful daycare and I am sure he will enjoy making new friends:)

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