CONGRATS A.!!!!!
I used to run a daycare with my daughter. Here's the key: QUESTIONS, QUESTIONS, QUESTIONS! Ask LOADS of them! Watch the interaction of the provider with the kids. Make an appointment and take with you a list of questions that are important to you. If you get any weird "vibes" at any time during the interview, forget that one and go on to the next one. After the initial interview, just drop in unannounced. The way the provider reacts to this tells you ALOT about her. Due to different personalities, not every provider gets along with every child. Doesn't mean their not fit to be one, just that they're human. We used to refer some kids to other providers when we felt that there might be problems for one reason or other. We also dealt with "hard to place" kids, so we had to be super careful who we took in. Two stong personalities just wouldn't cut it in our daycare. So we made referrals. Alot of providers kinda have a network thing going on. I know we did. Openings fill up fast in the summer months so if you find one you like and they're full, ask for a referral. Good providers are a pretty tight nit bunch and they're not afraid of sending you to someone else who they think would work well with you. And remember, it's YOUR interview, not theirs. You're in control of it. If the control shifts during the interview, think twice. I always had two sessions like this: first one, the parent asked questions and I answered them, including showing them any and all cerificates we held. Then I would send them home information to look at and share with the spouse. Then, if they contacted me, I would do another session with me asking them about their child and any special needs. I suggest doing the interviews without baby. That way, you're not distracted. Finding one before you need it is an excellent idea!! Oh, there's so much to share on this topic, I could just go on and on. LOL!! I live in Iowa too and if you'd like, you can message me and I'll share more. It's such an important decision. The person you choose will be caring for your most precious gift. Be strong and directed in your search and let NO ONE intimidate you in the process. Congrats again on your little one!! God Bless all of you!!
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S.