1. Make sure you know who is going to be there when your child is. Sometimes when my children were at a previous daycare, they would be left with spouse/niece/sister when provider had to run an arrand. Sometimes I was told before hand, sometimes not
2. Find out if they have a schedule they will follow...certain times for meals, snacks, naps
3. What will they be doing while under care? Playing with toys, learning preschool things, watching tv? You should want your child entertained while they are there. The number 1 responsiblity of the caregiver should be focusing on your child helping them learn right from wrong and teaching things to them, not placing in front of tv for the whole time
4. Where will children be? Sleeping arrangements? I had a daycare provider that put my 2 month old daughter in the swing to fall asleep with a blanket covering her head to keep out the sun & let her sleep in the swing the whole time. Another provider who had 3 toddlers napping in a twin bed together.
Much like the other parents, I agree about asking cost, food(what they provide & you provide), diapers/wipes, toliet training, bottles and the usual things. No matter what the questions you ask, before you choose, make sure everything feels right in your gut! Remember your children will be spending a lot of time with this person, make sure they are the type of role models you want your children to have. There are some wonderful home day cares out there! Good luck finding the one that makes you feel the most comfertable with!!