K.S.
I was watching kids out of my house and was not licensed but those whose children were intrusted to me knew that and had no problems with that. I think its a matter of preference - my first born was left with a licensed care giver who appeared nice at first and after a few weeks there were issues that I would not overlook - if the non licensed care giver is watching more children than you think anyone should be able to or can take care of then go elsewhere - it really is like the other ladies said a gut feeling.