B.S.
Happy New Year and congratulations on your pregnancy! I've just moved back to this area from two years in New Mexico and am a doula and Birthing From Within childbirth mentor - also a nurse at the Lisa Ross Birth & Women's Center...I would suggest turning your shower into more of a BlessingWay which focuses on the mother and her transition and journey into motherhood rather than so much on the baby. Of course you could combine the two esp if this is your first baby and you need some of the items that come from a baby shower.
Some of my favorite ideas: henna belly for mama, bellycasting...you might make a CD of your intended labor music and pass them out to your friends so that when you're laboring all of your well wishers can turn on your music and send you good vibes...Good luck! Sounds like fun!
Barb