J.Z.
L.,
This is such a tough age and I feel for you! 22 months is young, but it is old enough for you to really start shaping who he is going to be. Sometimes just remembering the small stuff is the best answer for you. He is 22 months, you are an adult. There is no reason why it should be such a struggle to get him dressed. Trust me, I know how boys can be. I have three of them. I have had to hold them down and force their clothes on. Once they realize who is boss and that you aren't going to play this game, it will end. If you continue to make this an argument in the morning than he is winning, he is definitely winning if you let him go off to daycare in his pj's. Some people view these stuggles as small battles that you should ignore. I don't agree. I think that this is when you are really starting to teach them that sometimes they are going to have to do things they don't want to and that's part of life.. As far as dinner goes, offer him his meal (as long it is a food that you know he likes) and if he refuses to eat and will not listen then dinner is over for him. Put his food aside and let him know that if he changes his mind then it is there. This is how we deal with the dinner issue at home. At my mother-in-law's one of my sons complains about certain foods or who he has to sit next to and my mother-in-law completely caters to him. This is the only place that he pulls this because he knows that it is the only place that it works. In my opinion I have also found that time outs do not work. I have always taken things away and found that to be a punishment that effects them so much more. This is something that is different for each child, so you just need to try out different methods and stay with one that works! Good luck...it's not easy being a mom :)