1st... It sounds like a war zone in the mornings at your house. Where is Dad? Why is it that Reece isn't getting the same message of cooperation from Dad that he gets from you. Runs in nylons, milk all over the place, no, you shouldn't be the only casualty of this morning routine.
2nd... He's two and he wants to be in control. Separation anxiety hits a real high when they reach 2 or so. They fully grasp you're going away and they want you to stay and watch the cartoons, etc. So, find out what's going on at day care. Maybe something has happened in the last few weeks that is causing him concern or hurt. You need to see if daycare can be as much fun as morning cartoons, a place he wants to go to.
3rd... You can't discuss your way out of anything with a two year. You can verbalize what the consequences are going to be and then when the behavior arises, the consequences are immediate. There isn't time for a time out while you're rushing to get ready every morning. So divide and conquer the chores of the morning. Dad gets him up and feeds him breakfast while you're in the shower and finish getting ready. Then switch places, you get Reece changed and dressed while Daddy's doing the same. If need be, get up 20 minutes earlier so you can take care of you, and then you'll have the 'extra' time for Reece in the morning. But if Reece throws his sippy cup and food, then there is no more sippy cup and food that morning. It's all gone. As long as you give him more, he's got more to throw. He'll go hungry that morning, but he will learn. You're not going to change your routine, you're taking away his ammunition. A 2 yr old will not starve if he has to wait until lunch to try eating again.
4th.... Start rewarding good behaviors at home. Sticker chart. At his age the sticker is the reward, so it doesn't have to lead to some bigger award when he's accumulated a certain number. Let him collect them. Find a subject that he likes, such as birds, dogs, dinosaurs, whatever...
5th.... Plan your mornings the night before. Get your breakfast stuff ready, your lunches made and for Reece, his clothes laid out. Have him help you pick out his shirt and pants, etc. Give him part of the routine.
6th... Take a deep breath and breathe!!!
7th.... Happy Mother's Day!!!