J.T.
if the baby JUST passed, try to get in touch with "now i lay me down to sleep" TONIGHT. they will get a local photographer into the hospital ASAP and do some BEAUTIFUL pics of the baby. i am so sorry for you friend.
http://www.nowilaymedowntosleep.org/
here's a direct link to the coordinators in our area:
http://www.nowilaymedowntosleep.org/searchpage.php
another idea, a james avery bracelet with the "heart remembers" charm.