Hi E.,
I've been a vegan for the past 15 or so years. So most of what I have to recommend is vegan (so no dairy! but also no eggs).
f you're looking for recipes online, check out the following Sites:
vegweb.com
vegetariantimes.com
veganyumyum.com
thppk.com
For cookbooks, I recommend anything by Isa Chandra Moskowitz and/or Terry Romero, especially Veganomicon, Vegan Brunch, and Viva Vegan! And we love Vegan on the Cheap (for relatively easy, yummy food) and Supermarket Vegan for weekday dinners.
My family are ovo-lacto vegetarians and they love all of these cookbooks/recipes, too!
Good luck,
R.