Hi A.!
I used disposables with my first 2 and cloth with my 3rd and will with my 4th due in July. I wish I had used cloth all along. They are SOOOO much better for baby and environment. Plus, they are so easy. If you are in Indiana, visit www.notyourmamasclothdiapers.com You can still visit it if you are not in Indiana, but Jennifer gives a discount for Indiana residents. She is wonderful.
I recommend using Charlie's Soap (not a soap at all) for detergent. It is all natural, will not cause any problems with diapers and extremely safe for baby. You can order directly from www.charliessoap.com or also another site that is very helpful and you can order from is www.sunshinediapers.com
I have tried several kinds of diapers and my favorite (by far) is Fuzzi Bunz. They are the easiest to wash, too. I have very hard water (even with our softener) and this causes problems with the diapers from time to time. I don't have trouble with Fuzzi Bunz.
Here is how I wash them. When baby is only breastfed, don't worry about poo. Just skip the first rinse cycle. If baby is on food and has more solid poo, then try to dump poo in toilet (what can be dumped) and then put diaper in pail. This is a dry system. Keep this up until a day or 2 have passed or you are in need of some more diapers. Then take the whole pail (liner and diapers) and dump in washing machine. Do a cold rinse (to help with poo). Then do a super hot wash cycle with 1 tbls. of Charlie's soap. Most then recommend just a cold rinse, but with my hard water I need to do one more hot wash cycle without anything. Then hang on the line if weather permits, if not dry on high in dryer.
My 3rd son is now 18 mos. and we have used cloth since birth with him. I absolutely love it and feel so good about what I am doing for him, and our earth!!! We have never had a poo blowout and he has some food allergies which has caused some nasty poo.
If you have any questions, please feel free to contact me directly. Also, if you are in central Indiana, Jennifer at Not Your Mama's Cloth Diapers has started a group for other cloth diapering mama's and kids to get together and visit, talk about kids, and talk about any problems/questions with cloth diapers.
OH, and I make a wipe solution instead of just water. I use distilled water, liquid castille soap, tea tree oil and Burt's Bee's Baby Oil (or something similar). I find this makes washing really messy bums a bit easier and helps prevent any diaper rash. Most babies do not get rashes with cloth diapers, but my son is extremely sensitive, so at times has had rashes and this helps to treat them too. Plus smells nice!!!
Take care!
H.