N.D.
Hi K. From reading your request, I guess it can be looked at a few ways: There are some people, men and women, who are more secure in themselves, and might be okay with you and your child's father having basic conversation about things other than the child. And would not care if you talked everyday. The issue there is really about security and trust. On the other hand, for someone who is not so secure, that might be an issue for them. If your relationship with your boyfriend is pretty solid, then you guys might want to establish some things on that front, i.e. maybe not talking to him everyday or keeping the conversing to a minimum. That miay be the only reason he even has a problem with your child's father in the first place and might be "acting out" in a sense. And consider the fact that your child's father doesn't like your boyfriend, yet you guys still talk everyday about other things. Maybe your child's father wants to keep a connection established between the two of you that has nothing to do with the child. You do have to figure out a balance, because it is important and easier to have a relationship when you are co-parenting where there is great communication and a great relationship, and depending on how important and committed you are to your new relationship, you may have to set some boundaries with BOTH men.