Ha ha - my SO thinks it's crazy that I'm soooo hard on my 3 year old about table manners. She can be really good at saying "please" not so good on "thank you." What bugs me... and again I'm hard on her... is when she says "I want this.. please." I'm trying to get her to say "may I have this, I would like some, please can I/may I, etc" instead of "I want."
@Mindy. Not to be disparaging but IMO waiting in line and taking turns can be taught and is taught as my 3 year old has been learning this concept since she started day care at 1 years old. We also talked about her feelings and other peoples feelings around the same age. I'm sure she didn't understand 100% at that age, but that's why we reinforce the lessons. At 2 years I think she understood 30% and now at 3 years she gets it as now I can give her examples that she understands.
My daughter is pretty good at waiting in line but she does tend to say "this is taking forever!"
My parents never taught me to ask to be excused from the table. I was taught to sit there until everyone was done eating and then I could get up. I'm not sure which way is better since I don't tend to excuse myself from the table... I stay until everyone is done =) hmmm... I do say "excuse me" if I have to go to the bathroom during dinner...