M.P.
Why don't you try a Gymboree or a MyGym type of place. And the library story hour. When you go to these make the extra effort to introduce yourself and if you click then ask if she would want to get the kids together. If the answer is no then at least you tried-don't feel bad. And find out when the moms groups meet and just show up. The same thing happened to me with MomsClub and I just ended up going to their mtg. It is really tough to meet people at parks and zoos...I never had luck there. Also-ask thewomen in your neighborhood of the older kids where they went when their kids were little. Once the kids hit preschool it will get easier. You can have their friends over for playdates and then connect with the moms hopefully.