J.C.
Well I personally wasn't a teen parent i was 23 when my son was born but i had friends who were teen parents, it is a very hard thing to deal with. Something you have to understand is that if teens want to have sex they WILL find a way to do it so if you tell him he can't see her he will anyway and it will only push him away, all i can say is my parents were very open with me about sex and the concequences that could follow sex and always had an open door policy with me. Luckily i was smart enough to use protection when my husband and i (at the age of 17) had sex, all you can do is make sure that know matter what he is prepared in the event that it could happen. And also i would go to any of the local Planned Parenthoods or even on line and get all the info about STD's because that may help to scare him into waiting, or even find a co worked or friend with a small child and let him so how hard it really is to be a parent. I hope that he is smart and waits until he is ready. There are to many teens that take sex for granite and end up having babies or getting STD's, some that never go away. Another thing you can use as kind of a scare tactic is explain to him that if he does become a father at an early age it means no time for friends, going to college is hard, and no time to just be a kid, all of friends who were teen parents ended up not with their childs other parent and struggling. Good luck and let me know what happens.