Why do you think you need everyone else to be excited for you in order for you to be as excited as you think you would be if you had them showing more emotions? It sounds like you're dealing with some self esteem issues. I didn't even tell anyone about my second pregnancy until the 4th month because I was planning a wedding and had a 7 month old, so I really couldn't handle many more topics at the time to fill people in on during conversation. One thing I have learned throughout the years is that the best thing you can do for yourself is take control of your own happiness in life. To have other people determine how happy you are is setting yourself up for an unhappy life, and not only that, it's setting yourself up for disappointment for other humans, which is what we all are, only human. When I became a SAHM, I realized after a year or so of depending on my husband as my sole adult contact, that I was literally putting my happiness in his hands, and if he came home in a bad mood, I was in a bad mood because I would get upset that after being with the kids all day, my one chance at an adult conversation was ruined because he was grumpy. Well, once I recognized this, I took back the control of my emotions and well being and just let myself be happy. It didn't matter if he came home grumpy because I was happy with my life and in my own skin, and my kids and husband and where I was in life was enough for me. It's enough for me to just be happy for myself when I accomplish things, I don't need to be validated through other people's reactions and emotions. You need to dig through the surface of these feelings you're having and get past them to the core of your inner self and learn to have your own happiness and contentedness be sufficient for your happiness. Who cares if other people aren't as excited about your baby? I mean, it's not them who's having it, it's you, and the only person's happiness that matters is your own. And don't worry about your husband, guys seem to be really good at focusing on the negatives, and as much as he really wants this baby, he's probably just naturally thinking "oh man, here we go with sleepless nights, less sex, and the regular crying again." So, give him time, once the baby comes, he'll be fine. Be your own support system though! Go to stores and browse through the baby departments, buy some new baby clothes, start planning the nursery. All these things will bring you happiness within yourself.