L.M.
S.,
I was just wondering what happened with your relationship? I am going through a similar situation now. Although mine is different in a couple of ways. I have an 18 month old son. The day I told my boyfreind that I was pregnant he distanced himself from me. At first just sexually. Then of course I began to resent him for making me feel unattractive. After I had my son he tried many times to become intimate with me again but I had alot of anger towards him for our relationship during the pregnancy. A couple of months later I began to see that I either have to forgive him or move on because I was miserable. I decided to try and make things work. He started avoiding me when we were in the house together and working different hours. I eventually found out that he had became very good freinds with a woman that he worked with. He ended up going to the movies with her on two seperate occasions. Needless to say we fought for several months. Him moving out a few times and me moving out a few times. We went to counceling and decided that we both made mistakes and that we do care about eachother enough to try to make it work.She moved to Arizona and all was quiet.. Untill about a month ago I saw that he has been e-mailing her and text messaging her on a daily bases. He has only had a phone conversation with her 2x last month, but I confronted him about it and he said that he couldnt believe that I was arguing about this.. (because she is now on the other side of the us...) Confused and scared. Please let me know how you are doing?