F.H.
I actually replied on there that I think she should have the boy over. That maybe her son could be a GOOD influence on him. They maybe could help him learn what is right and wrong and he could make changes for the better. We actually have been in this situation with a boy that lives across the street. He lives with his grandparents with his brother and sister. They have had a HORRIBLE childhood. Anyway, I would consider him not a good influence on my son. And in fact, they both got suspended from school for a day when they were in first grade. I could have banned them from playing together. However, I decided to sit both of them down. Told them what was right and wrong and what I expected from BOTH of them. I told Austin if he wanted to play with my son, he better behave appropriately or he would not be allowed to. For several months when they were playing, I was with them. Everytime they said or did something they shouldn't, I corrected both of them. I would remind them, "we don't say that or we don't do that" and correct them. There was a HUGE improvement from Austin. He even started to do better at school and get better grades. Now they play together with very little problems and I still remind them that we don't touch each other and we talk nicely to each other. This has been for the last 3 years. So it is possible to step in and be a good example to others...we have done it. =)