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The school can say they'll do this or they'll do that but they cannot control what parents do or don't do. They can say "Yes, we'll do what we can to provide a safe environment for your child". They cannot say "we'll wrestle a child eating a snack with nuts in it to the ground and force them to comply with what you need".
The school cannot be expected to police this issue. They can only do so much and then their culpability stops. They cannot prevent other people that are going to be around your son from eating foods with nuts in them. They don't have the legal right to force anyone to do anything.
Please understand there is a difference. You cannot force anyone to go along with this IEP/504 other than them making sure your son is not fed nut filled foods. Other than that they have no obligation or ability to force any other person that goes to that school or walks in the door to do anything.
I can walk in that school eating a Reeses Peanut Butter cup and them tell me they have a student sitting over there that's allergic, would I please throw that away and go wash.
I would then have the choice to do that OR simply say no, thank you for letting me know but I am hungry and I'm going to eat this right here right now. They cannot take my food from me, they cannot stand there and harass me, nor can they call the police on me.
There is no way they can force me to stop eating my Reeses cup but they could remove your son from the possible danger.
SO, all in all, they can try to keep stuff out of the classroom to protect him but they have no power to actually make other people stop eating nuts or having them whenever they want.
BTW, I am allergic to trees nuts. I have had a nice ride to the ER via ambulance several times now because someone decided that I was only allergic to peanuts.
I empathize with you and your concerns but that's what helps me to know what to say to you.
It is only your job to manage your child and your own household. It is not the schools job nor other parents jobs to manage their lives for your child.
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In your case you're wanting guarantees. That school will not and cannot force parents to comply to your needs. That will never happen. You will not ever have a written guarantee that your child will never come in contact with nuts.
It's not going to happen.
What is going to happen is the teacher will send notes home with the kids but it's that parents choice whether they want to follow it or not. You have the right to send specific snacks with your child that are his only.
There is nothing saying those parents won't feed their kids nut sandwiches on the way to school every morning. Then they touch a toy and then your son touches that toy and has an asthma attack. The school has no control over what parents and children do outside of the classroom.
If the child next to your son wants to eat a PB&J every day at lunch he or she has that right and it has nothing to do with you. My granddaughter only eats a PB&J sandwich every day for her lunch. She might eat something else they serve for lunch but it's more often she eats the PB&J. She has the right to eat what she wants.
You have the choice to send foods for your child that are safe for him and ask the teacher to manage this but she's the teacher, not his personal aid that is only there for him.
If you can't accept the school in this roll then you may want to home school your child but even then, he's still going to come in contact with nuts. My granddaughter ate a Reeses Cup at Walmart yesterday. She touched the cart while pushing it, she got peanut residue on it. If you came in and took that cart you'd have peanut residue on you. Transference.
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As for an IEP verses a 504 plan.
You can have one or the other but not both. Just keep in mind that an IEP often needs the doc, therapists providing services if any were needed for such things as PT or OT, the special services coordinator, the teacher, the principle, and you and hubby. This meeting usually only happens once per year to write up the plan for the following school year. All those involved in providing services need to come to the annual meeting.
A 504 plan meeting is usually only you and hubby, the teacher, and the principle. These meetings can be called at any time your child is having problems and the team needs to get together to address something to change the written plan.
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This site will give you very good information about the purposes for each type of plan and their distinct differences. Each program is specifically designed for different services.
http://www.ncld.org/
ALL links below are to specific to sections on this page.
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He has this plan due to the diagnosis of Autism. A lifelong disability that will never go away or be fixed.
What an IEP covers and it's purpose.
"The IDEA law requires that your child must meet two prongs of the law in order to be served by special education:
1. the child must have one (or more) of the 13 disabilities listed in IDEA which includes learning disabilities and attention disorders; and,
2. as a result of the disability, the child needs special education to make progress in school in order to benefit from the general education program
http://www.ncld.org/students-disabilities/iep-504-plan/wh...
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What the 504 plan does.
"504 plans are developed by school teams and parents to support the educational needs of a K–12 student with a disability that “substantially limits one or more major life activity” such as: learning, speaking, listening, reading, writing, concentrating, caring for oneself, etc."
http://www.ncld.org/students-disabilities/iep-504-plan/fi...
http://www.ncld.org/students-disabilities/iep-504-plan/is...
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Terms to know.
Individuals with Disability Education Improvement Act (IDEA) is the law that determines the IEP.
Section 504 of the Rehabilitation Act of 1973 is the law that determines/defines the 504 plan.
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Finally, this is a side by side chart the school should be using to determine which plan is best to meet your child's needs now and for future success too.
http://www.ncld.org/disability-advocacy/learn-ld-laws/ada...