C.M.
I can so relate. I have a 3 yr old son and an 11 month old daughter. I really considered adoption before my daughter was born. I was so scared that my son would feel left out or would no longer be my buddy. I wasn't sure I would know how to share myself with 2 children evenly. I couldn't imagine loving another child the way I love my son. As I previously stated....my daughter is 11 months old, and she fits right into our family of 3!! Loving them is different, but comes so natural. They are 2 different people who require different love from me. My daughter completes me in a totally different way than my son does. Your fears are very normal...and will work themselves out when you first hold baby #2!! Best of luck!!