D.W.
Hi Hopie! I've been using cloth on my 22 month old since she was 4 months old. I have some suggestions for you:
-Make sure you wash often enough. Don't go more than a couple of days. I wash every other night.
-Do a cold wash/cold rinse with no detergent, then a hot wash/hot rinse (if you have it, if not use cold rinse) with a tablespoon or so of a diaper approved detergent. I like Arm & Hammer Essentials Free & Clear. Then follow with a hot wash/rinse with no detergent. I use the shortest wash time for each cycle.
-Water is the key to clean, non-smelly cloth diapers!
-If you have hard water consider using Calgon liquid water softener (can be found in the laundry aisle at wal-mart) about once a month. Use about a 1/4 of the recommended amount when you are doing the cycle with the detergent.
-You may need to strip the diapers if they have a build-up and then start using the above recommendations. Check out pinstripesandpolkadots.com for info on stripping prefolds or other cloth diapers
-Do not use bleach, vinegar or baking soda on a regular basis. These will break down the fibers in your diapers and will make them wear out faster. I bleach maybe once every couple of months, if that.
Modern cloth does not have to be labor intensive if you know they type of water you have (I have hard water so that's how I discovered calgon) and how to care for your diapers properly. They are not our grandmother's diapers thank goodness. But if you care for them like our grandmother's did they will wear out on you faster lol.
H. that helps!