S.M.
we have the same problem... my son is 10, I'm looking for a Dr also, but I do NOT like Dr Strand in Plano, we had a terrible experience with his office staff and correct record keeping. and his explanation for us was that my son would stop when he wanted to and that it was all up to him. I had to call the nurses there for follow up and three times they had miss information on my sons medical information and they were telling me to do things the Dr didn't tell me to do and when I questioned them about it I discovered that they had inaccurate info in his file and that the info from the last appointment I had was not in the file, six months after that appointment, it still had not been updated correctly.
I went to another Dr in Dallas area that was good we solved the night time wetting issues, he recommended that we use a wetting alarm, which we did and it worked great, but things got busy and we haven't gone back, partly because it is so far away. I thought it would get better on it's own, but 3 years later is hasn't, and we are looking for someone also.
I would love to talk with you, I hope you don't mind if I MP you. we can swap stories, I'd be glad to share what I have learned about the bed wetting alarm that made it so much easier.