Hi D.,
My 5 year old son is allergic to peanuts. My son has had three reactions to peanuts. The first was around 2 years old when he developed hives. In his next reaction, he had swollen eyes and on his third reaction, he had an anaphylactic reaction which required use of EpiPen and a trip to the hospital. After the second reaction, we assumed he had a peanut allergy and got an EpiPen. For the third reaction, he was with his father-in-law and a neighbor. Both knew he had a peanut allergy, but gave him some M&Ms. Both failed to look at the package. They were peanut M&Ms. My point in telling you this is to emphasize the importance of label reading not only for yourself, but for whoever cares for your child. If you enroll your child in daycare of preschool, make sure they are very aware. In one instance, I didn't feel that my son's preschool understood the severity of his allergy. So I wrote them a letter explaining his medical history and gave them specific steps to do if he was exposed to peanuts. They called me back to discuss and it made them think a little harder about it. For example, the school had a birdfeeder with birdfood which contained peanuts.
So after my son's last reaction, I began on an informational gathering journey to help my son. For me, the traditional medical advice of "avoid peanuts" was part of the solution but inadequate. An allergic reaction is an immune system response. If my son's immune system responded so violently to a substance that could not harm him, then I felt something was wrong with his immune system, and I wanted to change that.
I found an accupuncture method on the net at www.naet.com. My son has undergone this treatment. They use accupressure for kids - no needles. Further, we give my son probiotics every day. You may wonder - why? As I said the allergic reaction is an immune system response and this immune system response begins in his digestive tract. I want his immune system and digestive system to work optimally. Probiotics can help both his immune system and digestive system work better. (I even give probiotics to my twins who are 13 months old. They have received them since they were about 3 months old.) Lastly, I have taken my son to a nutritionist. Not only does he have a peanut allergy, but he also has had a subcultaneous (under the skin) cyst removed and the surgical wound had a very hard time healing (again another indication to me that his immune system was not properly working). The nutritionist looked at his urine and found he had a "leaky gut". That is, his digestive tract was not properly processing the food he was consuming and the food was "leaking" out of the gut. Thus, the nutrition he ate was not being absorbed. She recommended that we eliminate gluten and sugar from his diet. We have done both since October. I've also stopped vaccinating him. We did not do any flu shots this year. So far this school year, he's only had a little cold and hasn't missed any preschool. I think the changes to his diet have definitely helped him and his immune system. Also, in the event that he is inadvertently exposed to peanuts again, I'm hopeful that his reaction will not be as severe.
I'm not a doctor or a medical professional. Actually, I'm a CPA and attorney, but right now, I'm staying at home with my kids. I do however believe that the use/overuse of antibiotics has contributed to his allergy. My son had three ear infections in a row prior to his first allergic reaction. All three ear infections were treated with antibiotics. Now I try to avoid antibiotics if at all possible. The antibiotics destroy all (both good and bad) bacteria in the body. This is another reason I have my 5 year old and my twins on probiotics. I hope I haven't given you too much information. But like I said, the conventional response from the tradition medical community was not a sufficient response for me, so I have tried to gather as much information from different sources as possible. Hope this helps!
One more thing, when your child is older, you can get a medical ID bracelet at www.coolmedid.com.