Hello ALL..
My daughter is attending in- house daycare. She have been at home for the summer with her sister. She is 12 months and have attending this care since school started (8/26). I alway stand at the door to see how long she crys before I leave for work. She will cry for about 20 seconds and then she done. She doesn't cry when we pull up or when the nanny talk or reach for her. I called numerous of time of the day to check on her and she is doing fine. It is just in the morning when we depart. Please help!! Any sugguestion will be great! THANKS!
So she cries for 20 seconds when you drop her off and then she is fine? I just wnat to make sure I understand....My child cries, screams please don't leave me, i wanna go with you, ect. SHe even says at night..."me no wanna go amy's"......20 seconds of crying...THANK GOD! You have been blessed!
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I have been in the child care field for 15 years and I can tell you that your daughter's reations are totally normal!T he only thing that will resolve the morning crying is time. She is at the begginning of the seperation anxiety phase and she will grow out of it. One thing you can do to help lessen the stress and length of this phase is to make a hasty and happy departure. Don't seem unsure about leaving and tell her some thing like, "Mommy will be here to pick you up after snack today. Bye bye!"
That's perfectly normal...actually, it's better then normal.
The fact that she is able to adjust so quickly and is happy all day should make you feel great. What a relief that you were able to find someplace that she feels so welcome and comfortable!
Honestly, while it seems an eternity to you 20 seconds is nothing to worry about. She sounds like a wonderfully well adjusted, happy little girl.
Count your blessings!
