I have two older kids and a 6 month old...during the school year it was much easier for me to work around her schedule, but now that the older kids are out for summer, I have had to adjust the baby's schedule. I still try to fit in naps, because I agree with you about sleep, but I have had to make a few concessions...i.e. I took the kids and their friends to the library and comic book store - then came home and dropped the older kids off at a neighbor's house, but baby and I went to buy groceries and some other errands...she slept in the car on the way and on the way back, but she stayed awake in the stroller...she used to be able to sleep in it, but not any more...then I laid her in the carrier for the shopping cart and she slept in there while I bought groceries....so it was not uninterrupted sleep, but overall it was a decent amount...but she was still cranky later that evening - her usual bedtime is 7 pm, but I had to put her to sleep at 5:30 pm last night. I fed her at 10:30 before I went to bed and was worried she would wake up too early, but she slept till 5:45 am - it was the best night's sleep I have gotten since she was born! Usually she wakes up a lot to eat or needs her pacifier, but I wasn't woken up once....it was amazing. 5:45 is a little early for me - so I fed her, changed her diaper, saw my husband off to work, then laid her back down with me for a nap around 6:30 or so and she slept till 9 am! She was in such a good mood this morning...and then I laid her back down for a nap at 11 and she didn't fight it - today is a lot more low-key - so she can take a good nap....we'll see how it affects her sleep tonight, but I really tried to follow Babywise and let her sleep long naps, but I think as long as she is getting the sleep somewhere she will be fine.