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This webpage has a lot of good info: http://www.idph.state.il.us/envhealth/pcmites.htm
and http://www.ces.ncsu.edu/depts/ent/notes/Urban/mites.htm
Read the link on this page about scabies. This kind need a prescription medicine. It sounds like lots of vacuuming, cleaning, and keeping the house dry (no humidity) helps to get rid of them. Good luck! That sounds awful. I hope the rest of you do not catch it also...the itching must be maddening.