J.C.
Let me tell ya something that I WISH I had been told, among many others things......Although it doesn't pertain to ALL dads, so many dads just aren't into babies. They don't do anything but lay there, and if you place them in men's arms, they're like "okay, now what?" It's like, they're missing that part of loving holding babies that women have. Women can just sit there and hold babies.....men can't. My husband was the EXACT same way, and I asked him about it and he said "well I don't know what to do with her when you hand her to me" It wasn't that he wasn't into her. Once the kids started playing back with him, he played with them more and more. As soon as they were crawling, he was letting them crawl all over him, and now at ages 6 and 7, there are some serious wrestling matches going on, and football games in the den. So, give him time. It's definitely not something that you can get all down about because chances are, he's just not a baby type dad, like mine. It's out of his comfort zone.