Hi, C.
My youngest was 5 (May birthday) when he started Kindergarten. The two oldest were 6 because they had fall/winter birth dates). Sometimes I wish I had waited until my 5 year old was 6 only because of the maturity level competing with the older ones in growth patterns and maturity levels. Thank God he was just as smart as all of them so he hung with them all the way, but the older ones were just taller and their testosterone/hormones kicked in sooner.
I have lived in Richardson, Texas since I was 9. I attended Richardson ISD since then. Our schools and communities are made up of parents who also attended RISD when they were younger. I have been told it is one of the No. 1 communities and school districts in the U.S. (always in the top 10-50 in D magazine)that people seek real estate to raise their families. I raised 3 sons here, as well. They were very involved in athletics, and one was involved in athletics and a pop choir. It is a tight-knit community. The North Richardson area closer to Plano (Collin County)and the most Northeastern (newer homes bordering Garland, Richardson and Plano seem like better neighborhoods to raise children because South Richardson is now strictly apartments and a bussed-to-separate-schools area).
My oldest is 26 and engaged. My two youngest are in college and I thank the school system and my staying involved for helping them reach their goals. Plano school system is another that I am aware of with good school but now the newer neighborhoods, like McKinney and Frisco are doing well and have newer neighborhoods (therefore, it is as though all the kids are starting fresh instead of being "the new" kid in town). Allen is a smaller, tight-knit town, as well.
I think that any school your children attend, whether they are top 10 or whatever, that being involved, staying in touch with their teachers, counselors and principals, helping your children after school with homework and setting a time and place for it, will help your child succeed no matter how well the school system helps them. The kids I know whose parents were not involved, because some had to work so hard as single parents, either got into the wrong crowd with no supervision or they just seemed so alone.
Anyhow....can you tell I miss the school scene and being involved like that now that mine are on their own in a sense? I am still involved by asking questions or helping if they need my advice, though. College is a whole new ball game!
Good luck in your search for a great school!
G.