I Heard Something Very Cool

Updated on September 11, 2007
T.M. asks from Mill Hall, PA
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I was going through the McDonald's drive-thru for a sweet tea yesterday morning (word to the wise - if you haven't tried them yet, DON'T! LOL They're addictively good!). Anyway, the line was extremely slow, but I wasn't in a hurry (for once) and didn't mind. but when I got to the window for my tea, the young man working there smiled at me and said, "I'm sorry things are so slow today. Nothing seems to be going right. I guess I'm having a 'character building kind of day'!" I was SO impressed with that statement!! What a positive way to look at the trouble he was having. In that same situation, having customers getting irritated with me, feeling like I was falling behind and failing to do well at something, I'm 100% positive I would be verbally beating myself up with comments on how stupid I am and comments along that line. But I plan to take his "character building day" comment with me and try to incorporate that into my internal dialogue AND pass it along to my kiddos when they're having a rough go of things.

Anyone else have some positive statements like that by which you live or get by??

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L.T.

answers from Pittsburgh on

"God didn't promise days without pain, laughter without sorrow, or sun without rain. He did promise strength for the day, comfort for the tears, and light for the way."

The last 16 months have been very stressful. We moved two times, my husband has worked 2 jobs, we've had financial issues, my parents are contracting old-age illnesses, my marriage is rocky, my daughter has a terrible temper, and my son was diagnosed with leukemia. But I'm okay. Nothing in my almost 40 years of life has prepared me for everything that has happened, seemingly all at once, but I'm dealing with it. I take things one day at a time. I acknowledge the positive aspects of my life. I try to live life with no regrets. I pray for guidance. My husband's job situation is stabilizing. We are getting the finances in order. My parents are getting treated for their health issues. My husband and I are taking little steps toward rebuilding our relationship. I am learning how to be more patient and nurturing with my daughter. My son is responding well to his treatment and has recovered from his setbacks. Under all the bad stuff there are so many things to be thankful for. I'm not an overly religous person, but I do rely on my faith. I wouldn't be able to cope without it.

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J.R.

answers from Allentown on

LOL! I tried the "sweet tea" once only because they were "out" of unsweetened tea. I always add 3 sugar packets to the unsweetened, so I figured I would go with the "sweet tea."

Uggghhh!!! I couldn't drink it--TOO sweet! To each their own, huh? ;-)

I'm glad you had a positive experience at the drive thru. One statement that I use sometimes that I learned from my foster father...when I do something that ends up having "costly" consequences in one way or another..."Well that's one to chalk up to life's tuition..."

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J.J.

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My postive statement...
It's Gonna Be A Good Day!!!!

Story behind this is...
My (she was 4 at the time)cousin was getting ready to have surgery to remove a tumor on her back and she looked at my aunt(her grandmother)and said that.Well for a year that became "Payton's statement"No matter what that little girl went through(with cancer)she always had a positive outlook.Even right up until the day she passes away(at age 5)she was always positive.This little girl's outlook on life was so positive and she brought together so many people that at her viewing there was over 800people.

But remember no matter what
"It's Gonna Be A Good Day.Make it a Good Day."
J.

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C.F.

answers from Pittsburgh on

Wow. I had never heard that before. I'm going to pass it along, and try to use it when I'm having a bad day. Thanks

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K.S.

answers from Pittsburgh on

"Don't make someone a priority who only makes you an option"

I heard this recently and it has been on my mind ever since, I finally got somewhere to share it so THANX FOR THE REQUEST! I tend to make people a priority who only make me an option. Some of my friends act like thier so busy to even call because they're so busy with their one child. I have 3 boys and a husband (so actually that makes 4 boys LOL) and I always make time for people who need me. My husband tells me I shouldn't but I'm just kind hearted by nature. But I'm tryin to change the fact that I focus on people who obviously don't want to focus on me. I hope through mamasource I can meet some nice young women like myself that can make time in their busy lives to atleast say HI!

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M.T.

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that is so awsome Iwish more people had that outlook on things in life

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