M.Q.
I also have 4 kids, all girls, they are almost 12,6,3,2. I work full time and my husband works long hours so it's basically just me doing everything, for everyone. Unfortunately this is really wearing me down both physically and emotionally :( and I'm starting to feel not happy. I do SO much and it's mainly my fault b/c im a neat freak and I expect way to much of myself. Just so you get an idea of what it's like for me....this is how my day went yesterday...
6am-woke up
7am-had breakfast cooked for my family of 6 PLUS 6 memebers of my hubbys family who are visiting.
715-served and cleaned after everyone
8am-sent off my husbands grandpa to the airport who has been here for the last month
830 my husbands family left to vegas
835- got kids ready for baby sitter
9am-left to work
2pm came back home, babies were napping so spent some quality time w my 6 & 12 y/o's then i cleaned up my room and living rooms/kitchen
245 babies woke up, got them all a snack
3pm- started cleaning my 6 y/o's room out, this was the room grandpa stayed in, washed all sheets, blankets, vaccummed and organized all her clothes
5pm- cleaned out baby room, organized drawers, shoes, vaccummed and washed blankets/sheets
7pm-started grocery list
730 out the door with all 4 kids to the grocery store
945pm- done picking up $300 worth of grocery, mind you this includes 6 meals for 15 people b/c the family is coming back tomorrow.
10pm picked up del taco
1015 got home and deep cleaned my refridgerator to make room for everything, while my girls ate,
my kids bedtime is 830 in the summer and 730 on school night so they went to bed suuuuper late, and ofcourse i beat myself up for that. Mind you, I did not have zumba yesterday i didnt do laundry and i didnt clean like i usually do, this was a "light day".
It's extremly hard, noone will ever understand how much we do.
oh ya i forgot to mention, tonight im taking my 3 eldest and 3 nieces to the circus, part of the family comes back tonight, the other half tomorrow..... :)