Oh, I can SO relate to the frustration of making repeated requests that are being ignored...
and I can share with you a resource that I have seen jaw-dropping positive, LONG-TERM results from in the relationships I have with each of my children.
Throughout the past year, I have been working with the author of a book called "THE PARENTS TOOLSHOP". In my 18+ years of caring for children, I have never seen such a comprehensive, outstanding resource.
The book is philosophical as well as practical, is extremely well-organized presenting ideas and skills in an easy to follow, logical, step-by-step format, and is based on Universal Principles that are true for ALL relationships and that yield positive LONG-TERM results.
After reading the book, I began to attend the FREE MONTHLY PARENTING SEMINARS that are offered on the Parents Toolshop Website.
http://www.parentstoolshop.com/Tele
Then I took a long-distance learning correspondence course also offered by the author
which involved learning certain skills and attitudes and applying them to practice situations... then receiving feedback regarding my responses.
I have seen so much improvement in my ability not only to respond effectively to situations that occur, but also in my ability to prevent many problems from occuring or getting worse... including encouraging my children to cooperatively follow-through with my requests!
Since taking the course, I have actually had a few people ask me, "How did you learn how to handle things like that?"........ I tell them about the Parents Toolshop.
The author of the book, Jody Johnston Pawel, is one of the few second-generation parenting instructors in the world. (meaning that her parents were also Parenting Instructors). She is a frequent guest on radio/TV talk shows throughout North America, was the Assistant Producer and on-air child care expert for the Emmy Award-nominated Ident-a-Kid television series, and currently serves as the online parenting expert for Cox Ohio Publishing’s mom-to-mom websites. She oversees an international network of parent educators and publishes dozens of resources for parents, family-service professionals and certified Parents Toolshop instructors.
I am so, so thankful for Jody's presence in my life.... She has been a strong source of guidance and encouragement and hope for me during a time when I felt extremely discouraged in my relationships with my children.
I’ve been so impressed by the results I’ve seen in my relationships with my children as I’ve learned with Jody that I’ve recently decided to take the NEW 8 WEEK TELE-CLASS that is now being offered to help me continue to practice and reinforce the skills I’ve been learning.... And I’m extra excited that my best friend is signed up to take the class too!
The class includes an extra half hour brainstorming/problem-solving session afterwards, which alone, in my opinion, is a valuable reason to take the class.
If you, or anyone else you know, is struggling with challenges, this could offer an incredible opportunity for guidance - that is based on accurate well-researched information and methods that are effective not only in the short-term but over time.
Here is some info about the class, if you are interested....
T.I.P.S. Tele-Class (for parents of children ages 1-18). 8-week Tues. evening series. 7-9 p.m. EDT + optional 1/2 hour FREE Brainstorming Bonus session each week! Same as live TIPS class, but by phone. NEW FIRST-TIME OFFERING!
See list of classes, dates, times, directions, links to flyers and on-line registration at http://www.parentstoolshop.com/HTML/ClassRegister.htm
See program descriptions and schedules for all workshops (statewide CEU & foster parent) at: http://www.parentstoolshop.com/HTML/Schedules2.htm
Better hurry, if you’re interested, though... the sign up deadline is coming up soon, and class size is limited... If you want to join, I encourage you to act NOW.
And if you know anyone else who may be interested, please spread the word!
Whether you read the book, attend the teleseminars, or become involved with the class, I personally guarentee that through these resources you absolutely will see the positive results you desire... as well as some amazing benefits you probably never even expected.
Hope to meet YOU at class!!!
S.
* I have an extra coupon for $10 off the class. If you’re interested, contact me at:
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