L.N.
I think others are saying the same type of thing, but my husband is oblivious to messes and it doesn't bother him at all, whereas it makes my blood boil to have a messy home. He is very smart, but is also absent-minded when it comes to things that are common-sense; such as - throwing socks on the floor rather than throwing them in the hamper or taking his shoes off in the living room rather than at the door. So I think they just need little reminders because they don't realize it. Also sit down and talk to him about it so he knows how you're feeling and that way, hopefully, you won't have to nag him at every little thing, and he might be more aware?! Good luck!!