E.B.
I am just getting over that problem. My husband and I have been married for 8.5 years but together for 13.5yrs after we had children and since i didn't work it was just me doing all the chores of the house, well i finally snapped. I didn't say anything about what I was going to do not to the kids or my hubby my birthday weekend i spent cleaning up after everyone again and then it just hit me i was going to do like they do. i let almost 3 weeks go by before doing the laundry or cleaning and the best was when only the healthy food was left since the shopping hadn't been done was when my family started to help out and listen. it's not a perfect plan but it helped out a lot. we went from me doing 100% of the chores to me doing 40-50% and the rest of the family doing the rest. when the kids would ask for something i would just say mom who i'm not mom i'm just the maid and would just act like them and play the i don't know game. i wish you the best of luck and hopefully this helps you a little.