M.
Hi,
I am the Director at Reading Friends. We are an academic preschool for children ages 2-Kindergarten.
First, a big part of my job is counseling parents about this very topic....whether or not to give their child the gift of an extra year. I have some information in print that I would be happy to share with you that you could share with your husband.
Let me just say this, and I don't mean to be gender-biased, but the dads almost always have a hard time with the thought of their child being different/associating their differences with failure of some sort....I don't know why, but I see it time and time again. Just because your child is different does not mean you have failed as a parent.
At any rate, if I can help you with anything, please let me know. We do have Kindergarten and tutoring help if you think that is the best route to go....almost everything we do at Reading Friends is rooted from a therapy perspective...this perspective works for all children in my point of view :-)
Please contact me directly if I can help....I wish you the best!
Regards,
M.
M. Senick
Reading Friends
www.readingfriends.org
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