In the past Santa has left the family tickets to go see some sort of show (circus, blue man group, Disney on ice...) as well as leaving the each of the girls gifts, of course. I don't think he's bringing tickets this year though as he hasn't been able to find any good shows. (and since SOMEHOW mine and santas bank accts are linked, there's not much left after we've purchased each girl their own iPod touch!).
I honestly don't know if/when I'll tell Santa to stop coming. I can see It both ways...stopping once both kids don't believe anymore or just keep going for the fun of it.
I was speaking to our neighbor last Christmas, who is also my daughters 1st grade teacher, and her kids are 23 and 19. She said she's never talked with either of her kids about Santa. That neither of them ever told her they don't believe in him. Now, obviously, they don't believe in him, but everyone acts like he's real. The 19 y/o still writes a list for Santa and puts it on the fridge (she attends a local college and comes home some w/e's). The son doesn't as he's in the navy. And "Santa" leaves her gifts from that list. I LOVE IT!! How long that will go on, I don't know. Maybe til grandchildren come along, but I love the story.
For my childhood, I remember when I stopped believing the actual gifts disappeared from Santa, but my mom still gave me a stocking for fun. So maybe that's what we'll do. I don't know, still have a few years to figure that one out!
Merry Christmas!