M.B.
I wouldn't pull my child out after one incident haven't we ALL slipped at one time we don't know what the whole story is(what kind of day teacher was having maybe stress at home not feeling well) I am NOT excusing it at all.Do you have postive things about this teacher most of the time. I would go into the confrence with the attitude of I totally understand how stressful a day can be and we all make mistakes I would like your assurance that this was a one time slip and that you will NOT be usuing this language with the children in the future. You could also ask your daughter was this the first or only time she has ever said a bad word?? Just make sure it wasn't a one time thing before you start pulling kids I feel everyone is human and if we all had our own kids taken out of our home for a onetime bad choice I think the foster system would be in trouble. Good luck!! Also, I say believe your daughter and instill in her now that she can come to you with ANY concern of an out of line adult.