T.H.
Hi, I too was in a relationship with a man like that. Everything was perfect.. Until we got married. It seemed like as soon as the papers were signed he was a different person. I could not go out with my friends, I could not go shopping without him, I couldn't make phone calls (my phone had to be on vibrate all the time), ect. Trying to change every aspect of who I am. It got so bad that we separated after 2 kids and are now working on a divorce. I'm in a relationship now with someone (only have been for 2 mos-been separated over 18 mos) and this person treats me and my kids great... Jealousy yes, is a red flag. Be weary of it.