My son was being punched before school in the gym. He kept backing away and telling the other boy to stop. The other boy seemed to think this made it it even more fun. My son then told him stop now before I make you stop. The other boy laughed and went to throw another harder less "playful" (if you can even say that) punch. My son used a quick and simple martial arts self defense technique and had the boy pinned face down on the floor before the aide (one aide to monitor eight classrooms of kids!!) could get over to them.
He did not actually hurt the boy other than his pride. Here is the kicker!!
My son was given the same punishment as the child throwing punches. Morning detention for several days.
Moral of the story be someones punching bag and let them hit you until the injure you and you can be unpunished. Defend yourself and get the same punishment as the abuser.
We took our son out every night of his "punishment" for ice cream and other treats. And celebrated his self defense at every dinner. Because he was right to defend himself and we told him so....and that no matter what the school did he was in the right.
He is now a 1st degree black belt (at the time he was studying martial arts....don't remember his belt color). And we often tell him self defense will never get him in trouble.
Don't ever start a fight but if someone lays a hand on you...you finish the fight!! (The rest of his time at that school NO ONE ever messed with him again...and he just screams pick on me because of his looks).
Every penny of martial arts training paid off that day...and I am sure will come in handy now that he is in middle school. I will take a suspension any day over my child being someone elses punching bag!!