18 Month Old Hitting - Hendersonville,TN

My 16 month old also hits. . . We have NEVER hit him EVER. . . they just are feeling things out. Anyway don't hit your child and expect them not to. We firmly tell him not hitting and if he does it again give him a time out (which don't last but about 45 seconds. . .) he usually gives me a hug when he gets out. Be firm and consistent do not hit your children - you teach by example - hitting your children teaches them to hit and that the bigger person wins.

My son went through the same thing about that age. We said loudly "No Hitting!" and if he did it a second time, put him in the Time-Out chair. He only was in time-out for just a minute or two until he says "sorry" and then I give him a big hug and kiss and let him down.

It's worked really well so far, the only time he hits now is occasionally when he's really tired and it's past betime or naptime, so I try to keep him on schedule getting enough to sleep each day. Good luck!

My 22 month old hits as well. ususally when he does not understand how to express his emotions. Try to focus on the events that lead up to him hitting and see if there is any thing you can change in his behavior before he strikes out again. It is important to teach him HOW to react after getting upset or embarrased. Patience and consistancy is also key in improving this issue. I know it's easier said than done, but also take a few seconds to calm down (maybe squeeze a stress ball) before punishing him. He will pick up on whatever emotion you are feeling. Be firm and strong not hostile. Good luck :)

S., I am sorry you're going through this. It cana be difficult and embarrassing. My first idea would be to make certain both parents and caregivers are on the same page. Secondly, never let her use the bad behavior to get her way. Third, when you see her do it IMMEDIATELY give her negative consequenses, like the "naughty chair" a la supernanny.

Fourth, tell her what you WANT her to do, using positive words, "Sarah has 'receiving hands'" (not "share that toy,") or "we use our kind hands to play". If she uses hitting hands, not kind hands, immediate negative consequenses.

I hope that helps,

A., mom of five

Hi S., all kids hit, even girls. My first one did not hit, but my second one will lay on top of other kids until they scream and then laugh about it. You just have to be consistent and move them out of situation. Try not to focus on the hitting part. Just move them to another toy to change the mood.

I put mine in his room or make him sit on the step and stay away from the child he is hitting.