My daughter's 1st birthday is coming up in a few weeks. Any suggestions on what we can do? I know she probably won't remember it but we do have tons of family and friends, including their children that would love to be there. We live in the San Jose area.
Keep it low key! It's more for you and family than for her at this age. She won't remember it at all and may even be overwhelmed by the level of activity. If you don't have space to invite people to your home, just hold it in a local park where people can talk, eat, play as appropriate for their age (i.e. toddlers, older kids, even adults). It isn't necessary to hire entertainers, jumphouses, etc. --especially at this age!
My granddaughter's second birthday is tomorrow, again in a park near her home. Last year, they bbq'd, this year it's taco buffet. The toddler is only beginning to understand what it's all about. (She'll be most excited about the Mickey Mouse cake her Mom is making.) Still it's more for the relatives and friends. Note that some child development experts recommend you invite one child guest for each year of age as children get older. That is the level of interaction the child can handle well and enjoy.
Dear Melissa,
"Tons of Family"
I would keep it simple have a pot luck- BBQ in a nice park. With tons of family you could make cup cakes and even enlist the help of a sister, aunt, granmother or close friend. You and your husband could supply hambergers, hot dogs or chicken (chicken thighs and legs are a usually a bargcan)...and if you need to make it more simple...fruit, sandwiches, chips and punch. Guest can bring side dishes, potato / pasta / green / fruit salad, baked beans, veggies and dip, extra drinks, etc.
It's All In The Family -- Right?