My 13 yr. old son has Asperger's Syndrome and is defient more times then not. I find it's very tricky getting him to just do the things he needs to do...homework, chores, picking up after himself, being respectful...I have to select my wording carefully. But when we're in a rush, that's difficult. More and more, I feel like I'm losing my mind when it comes to him. I want to help him so badly- but he gets very distant and unruly. I feel I'm fighting a losing battle! If there's anybody out there in a similar situation, please let me know. I just want another parent I can relate to. thank you so much!
Hi Heather,
Have you ever thought about trying some natural things for him. I know that Asperger's is a lot more serious than ADHD but they do fall into the same category. My youngest daughter was diagnosed with ADHD and I thought I was going to pull my hair out trying to make her focus. I received a suggestion from a family member and detoxed my home and I saw a dramatic change in her behavior. Her diagnosis was removed at the next doctor visit.
I'm not saying that this is the cause of your son's Asperger's but I do believe that it does provoke behavior that doesn't necessarily have to be there. My girlfriend has a 13 year old boy with Autism and has his behavior almost completely under control. When he visits his Dad (who has not detoxed his home) his behavior slips back to the way it was. I can explain my process to you if you are interested. I'd love to help. If you're concerned, it's not a costly thing at all. I can explain that as well.
God bless,