My parents are in Mississippi, they really need to move to Houston, where my sister and I are located.. My dad early to mid stages of Alzeheimer and my mom is on dialysis as of 6 months ago. Income is limited, we need to move them here, however, we don't really know what to do. They have lived there all their lives, we are torn between trying to move them into our homes or trying to locate an elderly care facility here. My dad is quiet the hand full, to put it very mildly. ANY suggestions on facilities or medicaid/medicare or in house assistance.
I don't have any experience to relate but wanted you to know that I feel your anxiety, as I have an aging parent several states away. Perhaps the people at the Houston Alzheimers association would have some insight or help. Their web address is www.alztex.org. I wish you well.