Hi, Maggie,
Congratulations on getting your girl!
I have 3 boys and had amnio with all 3. Although it seems daunting when you read about it in the childbirth books, its not too bad.
I would make sure that you call AHEAD and make sure the practitioner who is going to do the procedure believes in numbing the area first, before putting in the needle for the amnio itself. Ask me how I know that!
I went to 2 male doctors for the first 2 tests and they rather routinely numbed the area and proceeded. So, I was led to believe that this is the normal way its done. Although it was scary at the time, it all went smoothly.
With the 3rd, however, I went to a WOMAN doc, who simply told me that "she didn't DO that" i.e. numb the area. WTH?! I was like, are you freakin' kidding me here? I was married to a doctor, who accompanied me to the appointment and even HE looked at me like, "You've gotta be kidding" about this. We both thought that she had some nerve to even say that, then just demand it. I was ready to walk, period. Either numb it, or I'm outta here. This wasn't my first kid, so she couldn't pull the wool over my eyes, just so she could save a buck-fifty on some Novocaine. Oh, puleese. I said I'll find another doc who has some compassion. And a woman, too! We were absolutely blown away. My husband completely backed me. Its a big freakin' needle. And, I hate needles. That whole incident left me feeling kindof traumatized. Like I was getting railroaded. The look on her face, too, was like she knew she was trying to pull something.
Once the area is numbed, its a slight pinch when the needle penetrates the amniotic sac to extract the fluid. Its just kindof tense while you're lying there, watching the baby on the screen, hoping that it will stay out of the way. After the procedure, they'll tell you to 'take it easy' and stay on the couch for the afternoon/evening.
All in all, I'm very glad I had the amnio's and was able to proceed through the rest of the pregnancies with as much assurance as you can get that everything was ok. I believe that technology is an incredible gift, so bring it on. Better to make informed choices, and then have the time to prepare and cope with the results, rather than getting blindsided right after the birth, which is enough to handle in and of itself. Knowing your baby is healthy using the best information available is a great dose of peace of mind.
I would say that the hardest part is waiting the week after the test for the results.
Best of luck!
Cathleen