W.W.
Money isn't everything.
You need to figure out what you want in your career. Why can't you talk with your current employer and tell them you want more? You are looking for work but no one is noticing?
Are you looking for a "title" or are you looking for promotion and WORK? You're not fulfilled with your work right now, correct? WHY? Is it because you feel you can't go anywhere?
Do you NEED the benefits? Does your husband work and have benefits? Can you negotiate salary and benefits? I know as a recruiter - I work with people who are already getting 6 weeks of PTO and want to keep that (We have 4 weeks PTO). I can negotiate that. Almost everything is negotiable. You need to figure out what you want.
Is the commute any better? You say each are about 30 minutes. Is there a different route?
Are they flexible with their hours?
Can YOU work 40+ hours per week and no sacrifice family life? I just had a job interview - the salary is $15K more than I'm making now - however - I can't work from home with that job. I have been working from home for 13+ years. I am not sure I'm willing to give that up.
YOU need to figure out what you need and want out of your career. Work/Family life balance or WORK, WORK, WORK - using your degree and certs?
Personally? I'd keep looking. I'd talk to my current company about what I am seeking and see what they can and will do for me. Maybe they like you enough to create a position for you. You won't know until you ask.
Good luck!