Not talking about making him mad, I'm talking about making him DROOL.
With all the intimacy questions I've been seeing/responding too, I was just wondering what the number one thing is that gets your guy in the mood!
For me, and this is almost fail proof, it's making MYSELF feel sexy, then sashaying around the house, swinging my hips, feeling confident... even if he doesn't notice (which is rare!) it's still win/win because hey, who doesn't like feeling sexy and flirty?!
And I've got this one pair of underwear that, even without seeing me in them, I swear it sets off something in my guy, I almost always get something great out of him when I wear them. Like lucky underwear or something, LOL!!
So what gets your guy in the mood? Do you have a secret subtle hint, stare, pair of heels, ??? What's your secret weapon that makes him weak in the knees?
I think this spring weather has me feel frisky, LOL!!
I do absolutely nothing, doesn't matter, he chases me around constantly anyway. He'll give up everything else he loves forever for a 3 MINUTE handjob in the laundryroom. Honestly, it must be so cool to be SO easy ALL the time!
(And it's been this way for almost 30 years) Gives me A LOT of power I don't really want.
So what gets him in the mood? MY EXISTENCE!
:)
Exactly what Theresa said! Sometimes I'll look at him, like "really? I'm a mess, just got off the treadmill and I haven't showered in two days..." oh well! I'm thankful that he "only has eyes for me"!
If I even say the word sex or anything to do with it, he is humping my leg. ;)
My hubby loves when I dress up head to toe in Victoria's Secret (or insert your fav store here) lingerie. I mean really do it up - garter belt, the whole nine yards. I have been fortunate to maintain a nice figure and he appreciates it! But there have also been times I have gotten all "gotten up" and he said it would end up on the floor anyway in 5 min so why bother! He likes when I dress up and do a little show =)
And I am with Theresa (shocking!) - he chases me around with his tongue hanging out and I am in sweat pants and a tank top. As long as I am breathing......
I am kinda a tomboy so dressing up in anything more than my regular clothes usually does the trick!
If I really want to get him, I will put some little nighty on and bust out the computer (we like to watch some fun movies together sometimes) and that does it EVERY time.
Of course right now I am 8 months preg and very uncomfertable and in pain so it has dropped off dramatically recently, but I know what to do in the future :)
Also it doesn't hurt to be spontaneous during naptime (we only have one LO right now!)
I tell him, why don't you go and put on those cute little pants.
they are just like these yoga sweatpants from express, but they look so adorable on him, and he knows what that means.
other than that, the confident and sassy attitude that you describe always helps!
Really though, he is ready for me at any time, he is just respectful of my cues I give him.
I sometimes send him a text while he's at work "I'm making a delicious dinner tonight with something special for dessert - and it's not chocolate." He gets the meaning and he has all afternoon to THINK about it. I know men think about sex all the time, however, I swear my husband isn't a multi-tasker so I don't think he's thinking about sex all that much while he's at work. I might also call him at work and tell him not to work too hard because he's going to need his energy for later. There is nothing like giving him that little lift during the day when he's all stressed out at work. He comes home ready to go (as soon as my daughter is asleep). BTW, I think men love it when we initiate sex instead of them. I think a lot of women feel weird about that, but I'm pretty sure that would work for most men.
I will brush by him and rub myself up on him or do some sort of flirty gesture like that.....or I bend over right in front of him where he can't miss the shot, LOL ~ something like that.......
of course I only do these things when the kids are in bed or out of the room, not in front of them......
My husband is always in the mood. Always. It's not because of me, he's just got sex on his mind 24/7 and is ready to go anytime. It's kind of annoying actually!
You guys crack me up!! This post and all of the answers seriously has me laughing. Good golly. All I have to say is "want a quickie?" and he's racing for the bedroom. Too funny!!!
Does me being in the house count?
Ahhh heck who am I kidding....it's not just in the house....ok me being next to him.
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spooning!------its all over from there.
Not really much!! Sometimes just reaching over and laying my hand on his gets his motor running.
sexy underwear - that's all it takes
Many...many...many...things! Men are SO easy!
I have a couple depending on what situation we are in...
~He constantly gropes me, especially (it seems?) while in the kitchen... we can be wondering around doing ANY thing...when he comes up behind me all I have to do is push my butt up against him slightly and he is alert, ready and waiting....
~Getting into the shower with him ALWAYS yields happy endings...impossible not to actually.
~I did not know this about myself up until about 10 years into our relationship but when we were lying in bed, at any time mind you, if I am in the mood occasionally I lay on my stomach and wiggle my butt oh so softly...it was/still is sort of his cue that I am in the mood ;)
***Now that he has pointed it out, its not so sub-conscience anymore and I admit to stopping myself just because I think its a little embarrassing...and believe me, he is so sorry he ever pointed it out because he LOVED IT!
Men?! Gotta love them...
But I am with the other poster who stated that sometimes its a power I wish I didn't have...it sometimes feels too easy.
when i want to come onto my fiance, i will rub his arm. the underside of his forearm is so sensitive. or i'll gently rub his back when i'm sitting by him. sometimes it will just be this look that i give him. i tend to get more affectionate. other times i'll just grab him and kiss him. lol, its not hard to get him going. but he tends to know when i'm in the mood even when i don't, and he'll act on it. often he'll be watching tv, or playing a game and he'll call my attention over nad he'll be ready to go. its kinda cute. also naptime quickies are really fun for us! especially if we can accomplish it when we have all three kids!!
Sure-fire thing is telling him: "I want you now".
I guess he is that easy, lol.
Now if you are talking as a suggest, it would be let my hair down, wear my glasses and a formal outfit, wear high heels. I know him so well, and so does he knows me well that he knows what I am up to, lol.
