Shoes or No?

Updated on May 08, 2012
V.M. asks from Conneaut, OH
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Do you wear shoes in the house? upstaiirs and Downstairs?

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H.P.

answers from Houston on

If you're wearing stockings, then you must wear shoes. Period. Stockings and no shoes is fashionably awkward.

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N.L.

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We don't normally wear shoes in the house, so my husband would probably be totally confused. He'd be like "hey, where are you going? I thought we were going to have "adult time"? :)

I generally don't wear "stockings" with lingerie, though, so the shoe thing never really crossed my mind. However, now that I think about it, I might create an "invitation" by wearing JUST high heels tonight!

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K.B.

answers from San Diego on

Lol...I asked a bf once if he wanted me to wear lingerie, as I held up something on the rack, he took it, threw it on the floor and said, yep...looks good to me. I asked why he did that and he said, that's where it'll end up. Lmao

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T.B.

answers from Miami on

Shoes JUST for the bedroom, absolutely!

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H.G.

answers from New York on

I'm going to speak for your husband. He won't be looking at your feet. lol. I'd say if you're showing off the outfit a little beforehand, add the shoes. Otherwise, I'd think you'd have a bit of a safety issue. Your hubby may or may not want to explain how he got a black eye from your heel hitting him in the face. Just a thought.

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S.W.

answers from Minneapolis on

Go get yourself one pair of high heels that you love, even if you never wear them out of the bedroom! Heels make your legs and butt look fabulous. I rarely wear heels, but they do make a woman feel sexy, IMO.

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N.B.

answers from Dallas on

Shoes definetely!! My husband notices!!

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D.W.

answers from Gainesville on

Def shoes! And you don't have to spend a fortune since they only have one purpose. I found the perfect bedroom shoes at Target of all places and on clearance! Wooo! Places like target and payless have shoes that are perfect for you!

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C.G.

answers from Boca Raton on

yes girl they do add shoes...lol... but its okay im sure you make up for the no shoe thing....lol

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J.L.

answers from Los Angeles on

My guy likes the whole outfit, but if he had to pick just one item, it would be the shoes! So we add them.
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S.B.

answers from Kansas City on

my husband is just into the stockings, so I never bother with shoes.

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G.B.

answers from Oklahoma City on

I think finding a pair of heels, even sort of a high heel would be super fun for hubby. You need to practice wearing them though. When he's not home slip them on and break them in along with breaking in the skills needed to walk straight up in them.

I think a pump makes a woman's legs look a lot longer and thinner than a sandal with a strap that goes across the foot cutting the visual line into pieces.

So a mid to mid high heel is fine. A bit higher than a kitten heel but not a steeple.

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S.L.

answers from Savannah on

I have one pair of shoes from vic's secret that i wear sometimes. but i will add that i tend to wear heels on date night and casually show them off to him during the date. the foot leads to the leg which leads to the ....

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E.S.

answers from New York on

Hubby not intio lingerie :-(

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V.W.

answers from Minneapolis on

If I wore high heels, I would fall at least twice before making it to the bed. Plus, if I managed to get to the bed I think that after all the sexy time was over with my fiance would make at least one comment about how I shouldn't have shoes on the furniture. Lol

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K.

answers from Chicago on

Yes, shoes are a must!

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J.W.

answers from St. Louis on

In my opinion they are never looking at the feet. You could wear ugs and they probably wouldn't notice.

Go with just the stockings, less chance of someone getting stabbed with a heel.

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C.V.

answers from Los Angeles on

I add the heels when I wear an outfit. Then they gradually come off with the rest of it. It's a little awkward to leave them on the whole time, not to mention dangerous lol. But definitely I think they go together.

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K.M.

answers from Chicago on

Not into that stuff - but I think I would want the shoes - get a pair of black and a nude pair I think.

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G.H.

answers from Chicago on

Shoes can make or break ANY outfit, go get some heels & maybe a new outfit

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S.B.

answers from Redding on

If you don't usually wear something on your feet, try it.

Sometimes it is the taking off of something that is sexy as opposed to the wearing it.

Some men really like the shoe thing.

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J.D.

answers from Cincinnati on

I usually don't wear shoes. In fact, I really don't have any heals, I need new ones. My husband prefers no heals.

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D.T.

answers from Muncie on

I will add, sometimes, especially if stockings are apart of the outfit. They don't stay on long. They also add a few inches to my height that make certain adventurous positions possible. My only heels are chunky wedge sandles. What you have sounds perfectly fine to wear with your stockings.

C.M.

answers from Washington DC on

I'm like you, I never wear heels! I have never worn them in the bedroom either. I have lots of lingerie, but nothing that I would wear heels with.

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